This week Jay and Abiola discuss a letter from a woman who has been with her husband since the age 16. Now at 21 she is very unhappy and has cheated on him several times. She wants to move past her issues but still harbors some anger towards her husband. The Letter from this week: I am looking for help and I’m hoping you could do just that for me. I am 21 years old and have been with my husband for 5 years now we have a son thats 3 years old ever since i had him i haven’t had an orgasm,well i pleasure myself and i do have an orgasm. About a few months ago i cheated on him with a couple of men i really liked being with those men even though i still didn’t have an orgasm i still felt really turned on as for my husband i just feel like pushing him of of me i don’t want to have sex with him anymore i don’t even want to kiss him. I feel bad for cheating on him but i did it because i just didn’t have that attention from him like the other men gave me, he would just go out and drink with friends and i would stay at home with my child. A few weeks ago he found out i was talking with someone, but what he doesn’t know is that i slept with them. Now i want to put all that in the past and move on with our lives but i still don’t want to have sex with him i try to make up excuses to not have sex but when i do i just feel solo angry that i just want to punch him or just to push him of of me. I really need help. Hope you can help me, and hope i hear from you soon. Love, Sex, Relationships, Engagements, Marriage, trust, fear, advice, cheating