Ever been accused of being a feminist? Lucy and Em discuss what feminism really means and how to have a conversation with someone who is "anti-feminism." And, we've all been on a train wreck of a date. Our dating diary guest this week has been on so many, she even started a Facebook page for it.  The End Bits  Mamamia article: A former Sydney schoolgirl started a petition for sexual consent. 1200 students told their harrowing stories. Sign the petition for consent to be included in sex education: https://www.teachusconsent.com/  Where to find support if you have been impacted by rape, sexual assault or domestic violence: National Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence Counselling Service 24-hour helpline 1800 RESPECT on 1800 737 732 Lifeline (24 hour crisis line): 131 114 Beyond Blue: 1300 224 636 How to have a conversation with someone who says they're not a feminist. Bad Dates of Melbourne: https://www.facebook.com/baddatesofmelbourne  Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9 If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.  Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey  Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville  If you want to share your dating story email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au CONTACT US Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386 Send us a voice memo to podcast@mamamia.com.au  This episode was produced by Mel Sauer & Elissa Ratliff Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.