Flex Mami's joins us to talk dating but it quickly turns into a therapy session. Em and Lucy get to know each other (and themselves) a whole lot better and find out about the latest dating trend, "woke-fishing." Plus, looking to buy your first vibrator? Or want to try something different? Em and Lucy recommend their top picks and what to look for. The End Bits  Lucy, Em & Flex Mami's vibrator recommendations: Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator; $169.95 Bend by Rosewell; $149 MMM Rabbit Vibrator by Par Femme; $139.00 Tracey Cox Supersex Rabbit Ear Clitoral Vibrator; $49.95 Get to know your friends better with the Flex Mami x Hey Tiger chocolate blocks: https://heytiger.com.au/collections/valentines-day With special thanks to our guest, Flex Mami: https://www.instagram.com/flex.mami/ Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9 If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.  Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey  Slide into our DMs @emilyvernem & @lucymneville  If you want to share your dating story email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au CONTACT US Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386 Send us a voice memo to podcast@mamamia.com.au  This episode was produced by Elissa Ratliff & Mel Sauer. Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.