You don’t need to change someone’s perception of you to be valid. Here’s what you can do instead: sit with the discomfort that you’re the villain in someone else’s story, find ways to meet your needs without extracting them from other people, and refuse to give relationship nostalgia more weight than it needs (or say fuck it and shoot your shot—it worked for Sierra and her wife!). Our live show has been rescheduled to Friday, 10/21. Get tickets for the in-person show here, and for the livestream here. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Invisiblia - The P Word Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices