Shae Harmon is our guest on today's podcast and they are here to talk about trans people's experiences of pleasure and joy and how we can broaden the conversations about sexuality to be more inclusive and expansive. Content warning: there are a few unbleeped words on this episode! Shae (they/them) is a trainee sexologist at the Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology in the UK, soon embarking on their final year. Shae has experience running queer and sex positive events in London, mentoring and supporting queers, running workshops on consent, negotiation, sex menu writing, relationship styles, activism and intimacy. They have been an active participant in restorative justice within various communities. They sometimes blog about trans/non-binary issues for Feeld, COSRT and other sites.  Extra credit links: Shae Harmon Instagram @shaequeertherapy Shae Harmon tiktok @shaequeertherapy  Smut Peddlars Zine (amateur erotica by young, POC, trans and non-binary people) Xan West - cute stories and erotica based on gender and body diverse peeps Fucking Trans Women - Zine by Mira Bellwether  Pinklabel.tv Porn Crashpad Porn Trans Sex, Lucie Fielding - a book for therapists working with Gender Diverse clients Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices