Today's question comes from a listener who is in a loving relationship but feels a little stuck in the way her partner is seeing her. The Madonna/Whore complex is a phenomenon that our culture perpetuates as a script for how women are sometimes viewed by their partners. We talk about what it is, how it shows up culturally and in relationships, and what you can do about it if it is present in your relationship. (And how to kink it up if you want to play with it --with consent of course!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices