In Ep. 81 Shanti shares a new pet peeve and Antoinette breaks her vegan fast. Together, we react to Tracey Ellis’s new song (chile…) and dive into a new chapter of Pleasure Activism. For our main topic, we are inspired by our second favoritest white woman - Esther Perel. After listening to her TED talk, we rethink infidelity, partnership, and the unrealistic expectations we create. Do we set ourselves up to cheat and be cheated on? Join us…Join Patreon for exclusive content here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsNext Pleasure Activism Chapter is: Pleasure After Childhood Sexual Abuse page 293Watch Esther Perel’s Rethinking Infidelity here:https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_rethinking_infidelity_a_talk_for_anyone_who_has_ever_loved?language=en#t-397379Purchase TLC’s Creep here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/creep/270246704?i=270246711