Hot mess mom culture tells us that motherhood WILL be a mess and that the bigger the mess, the more you are accepted. It says ... "if you struggle together, you are connected. If you are doing well, everyone else is failing and you are the villain."   I have talked a lot about my issue with the way society paints motherhood. The way it is drawn for us, how we subscribe to it and how we identify with it. And we all know that what you identify with is what you get, and ultimately how you live.   I think that this message was intended to be true, but it has turned toxic. It is taking away your power to be the best mom you can be for your family.   In this episode, we are going to break this down and shift our mindsets from reactive to ownership. We can take back the power, babe.   Everything mentioned in this episode can be found HERE: alliecasazza.com/shownotes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices