Once you give a TED Talk on arousal and get your work name-dropped on the series Sex Education, you know you’re a bona fide sexpert. For Emily Nagoski, these are just a few of her many accolades, including hosting the new podcast Come As You Are from Pushkin. On this episode of Good Sex, Emily puts on her educator hat and doles out the wisdom she’s accrued over the years. Don’t know how to ask a partner for something you want in the bedroom? You will soon enough.

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As expected, Good Sex contains mature themes and may not be appropriate for all listeners. 

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