What would you do if someone interviewed and photographed all of your ex-lovers? This is exactly what photo-based artist, Kirra Cheers, did after her friend gifted her a list of all his previous sex partners. She pieces these narratives together in her new, groundbreaking book, “The List.” This episode begins with KarenLee and Cam sharing how many people they’ve had sex with and what those partners would say about them. Then, Kirra joins them to chat about what it was like to rehash these relationships and even describes how her own relationship with the list’s owner changed. This is a tremendous look at sex in today’s culture and how two partners can hold such disparate perspectives of the same sexual encounter.   Check out Kirra Cheers' work and get yourself a copy of “The List” at thelistbykirracheers.com, kirracheers.com, Instagram @KirraCheers   This podcast is sponsored by Diskrét, the elite sex toy shop with the lowest prices. They feature KarenLee’s favorite toys, and right now you can get 15% off when you enter promo code “Mom” at www.diskretadultlife.com.   Please get in touch with us by texting or leaving a voicemail at (YES)-TEXT-MOM. That’s (937)-839-8666. What would your List look like?   Thank you for all the love over the past 110+ episodes. If you'd like to support the show, consider funding our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/sextalkwithmymom. We'd be very grateful!   Get close with us on social at: Facebook/Instagram - @SexTalkWithMyMom  Twitter - @SexTalkPodcast  Website - www.SexTalkWithMyMom.com   With love, KarenLee and Cam  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices