Knowing how difficult it can be to identify covert narcissists, Dr. Les Carter addresses how necessary it is to identify how they operate. Their favorite tactic is gaslighting, meaning they proactively try to generate confusion within you about your interpretations, priorities, and preferences. As you see their gaslighting for what it is, it highlights the necessity of listening to yourself. Covert narcissists are highly controlling, yet they want you to think you are the one with the problem.  Don't take the bait!

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