Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 30th, 2018, and beyond, including:

1. BONUS: Han's Tattoo on Their Tattoo Artist's Instagram (and Han's Instagram)
2. Listener Skyler Elmridge, Ingenious Blacksmith: "Should We Put a Spot for Pronouns On Our Wedding Place Cards?"
3. Listener Insert Name Here: "Am I a Bad Queer?"
4. Listener Quarrius, Nimble Geomancer: "What More Can I Do to Help My Friend Who Keeps Facing Abusive Jobs Everywhere He Goes?"
5. Listener Aephe, Stout Battlemage: "Should I Talk to My Dad Again?"
6. Listener Yolanda, Cynosure of the Net: "Where Do I Find My Motivation Now That I'm No Longer Being Terrorized By a Cat?"
7. SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with!
8. Listener Lady Lazor, Hufflepuff: "A Question of Bodies and Their Wonderful Variety!"
9. Learning About Disabilities and Chronic Pain
   • A Listener on teeth brushing and chronic pain on our Facebook Group
   • Lithub: "My Disease Is not a Metaphor"
   • Sonya Huber's "Pain Woman and Other Essays From a Nervous System"
   • Shoutout to my girlfriend Emile <3
10. Listeners Weigh In On Gender Reveal Parties
    • CNN: "Border patrol agent's gender reveal party ignited a 47,000-acre wildfire"
    • Elle: "What To Expect When Your Child's Gender Is Fire"
    • Pokemon's Gender Binary (and also WTF did I just watch?!?)
11. Children's Books Eschewing Gender Norms
    • Suggestions from listeners on in our Facebook Group
12. The Ocean Is Coming For You
13. Advice Column Question Round-Up
    • Ask the Strategist: "lounge-chairs-with-back-support.html">What Is the Best Lounge Chair With Back Support?"
    • Fatherly Advice: "The News is Terrible. Don't Let Your Kid Watch it."
    • Y'all Need Help: "Your Girlfriends Family Is Racist and You Should Probably Get the Hell Out of There"
    • The Ethicist: "Is It O.K. to Press Your Spouse to Have a Vasectomy Before You Ditch Him?"
    • Ask Amy: "Urban pioneer isn't ready for the neighborhood"
    • Captain Awkward: "Navigating the aftermath of the abuse in the social circle." (Requested by Listener Sarah H)
    • Dear Dana: "I’m A Sexual Assault Survivor, And I’m Filled With Rage Right Now" (Requested by a Listener, who notes that this could be cathartic for others. It definitely contains some incredibly useful tips on how to channel that rage into activism)
    • Asking For a Friend: "Planet Earth Is Doomed. How Do I Go On?"
    • Autostraddle: "This Woman Asking for Advice About Her Gay Affair Should Leave Her Husband, Be Gay, Do Crimes"
    • Romper: "What If Heather Havrilesky Is Right? Ask Polly’s Columnist On Having All The Answers"
    • Ask Polly: "broke-boyfriend-wants-us-to-live-together.html?utm_campaign=Ask-Polly-2018-10-03&utm_medium=email&utm_source=Sailthru&utm_term=Subscription-List-Subscription-List---Ask-Polly">My Broke Boyfriend Wants Us to Live Together!" (Requested by Listener Floyd)

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