Kail comes up with a potential new segment for a live show and it involves contacting a few exes. She then talks about a social media post she responded to regarding the different conditions men and women have for their partners. Vee brings up a debate about Christmas gifts and how certain toys reinforce gender roles. They also read a Down in the DM from someone who can't quit her three year affair with a neighbor and another Down in the DM from someone who discovered that her neighbor is her biological father. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Warby Parker: Try 5 pairs of glasses at home for free at warbyparker.com/mamadrama Pill Club: Right now, when you go to THEPILLCLUB.COM/BABYMAMA the Pill Club is offering a $10 donation to Bedsider.org for every Baby Mamas No Drama listener who becomes a patient. Your donation will help low-income individuals get access to birth control through Bedsider.org. Brooklinen: Go to Brooklinen.com and use promo code [drama] for $20 off with a minimum purchaseof $100