What makes a deeply connected relationship work? Can couple's continue to have the best sex of their lives in long term relationships, and if so, what are some of the tools or creating and maintaining a fulfilling sex life? How does commitment including marriage affect things? What are some of the ways people can grow and nourish partnerships whether or not they "put a ring on it"? About our guests: Jef combines transformational coaching with emotional mastery, psychological integration, shadow work, and energetic attunement.  He is a meme lord and a master level practitioner and teacher of EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and incorporates shadow integration and cognitive science into the methodology that he now trains practitioners in.  He guides people in a process of intentional patterns of thought that invite internal unification, profound personal empowerment, and deep energetic/emotional hygiene. His vision is one of collective healing, harmonization and integration that is self replicating, just like a meme. Check out Jef’s work at mosjef.co and peep his memes on Instagram @mos__jef Fabienne is a Sex and Intimacy coach who specializes in helping penis-owners develop mastery over themselves through the window of their sexual energy, offering them the insight and perspective of a well-studied woman with a pussy. She helps people have better sex lives, helping them embody their sexual power with integrity through the use of ancient practices and therapeutic techniques based on modern day neuroscience.  Her mission is to help people of all genders come into more understanding and respect of each other so that we can all evolve together while getting our needs met and having great sex.  Find out more about Fabienne’s work at fabienneannick.com or on Instagram @fabienneannick, and for $300 off Fabienne and Jef's upcoming course use code SHAMELESS. Other links: Listen to the Double Teamed Podcast at doubleteamedpodcast.com Make eating healthy, delicious meals easy with 60% off plus free shipping at greenchef.com Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com