What’s the problem with striving for 50/50 fairness in modern day marriages and relationships? How does an 80/80 approach lead to more connection and far less conflict?  What does “the way you do life is the way you do sex" mean, and what 80/80 tools can couples apply to their relationships to inspire more intimacy and great sex? Nate Klemp, PhD answers all this and more.  We also answer a sex question about how to talk to a partner about keeping it casual.  Want to make friends with other Shameless Sex fans? Join our online (free) Discord community by clicking here or going to bit.ly/shamelesssex Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 22.  About our guest: Nate Klemp is a writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur. Along with his wife Kaley, he is the author of the newly released The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Marriage (Penguin Random House). He is also the coauthor, with Eric Langshur, of the New York Times Bestseller Start Here: Master the Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing and is a regular contributor for Inc. Magazine, Fast Company, and Mindful. He is also a founding partner at Mindful, one of the world's largest mindfulness media and training companies. Nate holds a B.A. and M.A. in philosophy from Stanford University and a PhD from Princeton University. To learn more visit 8080marriage.com   Other links from our beloved sponsors: Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.com Get 20% off and free shipping on Like A Kitten's BYOB sexy gift box with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless  Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of vulva pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com