In this super fun and informative episode with Sexpert Sunny Megatron we talk all about kink and BDSM, why learning more strategic "soft skills" are key, as well as plenty of playful and sexy tips and tricks on bringing more kink into your erotic life.  We also answer a sex question: Is it okay to go outside of my marriage if my partner isn't satisfying my sexual needs?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 24.  About our guest: Sunny Megatron is a sexuality & kink educator and media personality. She’s the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts the AASECT Award winning American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast.  Sunny is a Certified Relationship Coach and American College of Sexologists International Certified Sex Educator plus was voted XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year and Kinkly’s Sex Blogging Superhero of 2017. She’s been featured by outlets like Cosmo, Playboy, Buzzfeed, and CNN, plus is a contributing editor of XBIZ Premiere Magazine and a regular columnist for Sexual Health Magazine. Her first book, Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Erotic Play will be released in 2022.  In her sell-out sex and kink workshops, Sunny’s unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny’s passion is helping people become their authentic, sexual selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, her work focuses on demystifying non-normative sexual practices, amplifying erotic intelligence, and ending stigma. LINKS  sunnymegatron.com twitter.com/sunnymegatron tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron instagram.com/sunnymegatron facebook.com/sunnymegatron Americansexpodcast.com opendeeplypodcast.com patreon.com/americansexpodcast   Other links: Get your buzz on without getting floored with our favorite legal, organic smokable hemp by Dad Grass + 20% off your first order at dadgrass.com/shameless Want 20% off the ultimate BYOB sexy kits? Go to likeakitten.com/shameless or enter code SHAMELESS at checkout  Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com