Is there an art to kissing? Does technique matter? What are the qualities of a really great kisser? And what usually gets in the way of great kissing (aka not so great kissing)? Repeat guest Darshana Avila answers all this and more including some great tips and techniques.  We also answer a sex question: I don't want to have sex with my boyfriend anymore.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19.  About our guest: “We are erotic by nature.” This is the foundation of everything that Darshana Avila shares, guiding women (and sometimes their partners, too) who are ready for radical intimacy in their lives to lay down their armor and claim their wholeness. She guides, mentors and coaches from the belief that none of us is actually broken and in need of fixing, but instead we have fragmented parts that need to be reclaimed and integrated into our being. Darshana is dedicated to helping people feel truly at home in their bodies and in alignment with their souls so they experience more ease and pleasure in all aspects of life. She has a private practice and also facilitates intimate group experiences. To learn more visit darshanaavila.com. Follow Darshana on IG at @eroticwholeness Other links: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless  Get 20% off your delicious chilled summer wine game at DRINKBEV.com/SHAMELESS or use code SHAMELESS Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast