Two excellent listener questions that really floated my boat on The Save The Date Wedding Podcast Q&A episode. Rachel wants some advice about her bridal party…when she and her fiancé share the same group of close friends, who get the first pick of friends to add to their A-team? Annie writes to saying that she feels embarrassed that initially she was so outspoken about not doing THIS or not having THAT at her wedding and have turned right around to do those things. She asked for some insight on dealing with the negative self-talk because she feels that ‘she failed at my own wedding vision, or "gave into" the wedding nonsense.’ Be on your way to wedding Planning Zen with the Bridechilla Guides! Visit the Bridechilla Store and use the Codeword LISTEN for 10% off your order! Join the Bridechilla Community on Facebook. The best Wedding Planning community around. It's bullshit-free, jerk-free and a nice place to be! Keep up to date with the Bridechilla Blog, read podcast show notes and be inspired by real Bridechilla Weddings Join Bridechilla founder, Aleisha on Instagram, for wedding inspiration and more!