Jes Tom confesses that they lost their virginity on prom night, and planned it that way, like a teen movie cliche. As a self-identifying edgy and counter culture comic, they talk about how they at heart just wanted to be a romantic in high school. We discuss their experience in poly vs monogamous relationships, and play a game all about Asian snacks and their slang definitions.  Jes Tom is a comedian, sex advocacy educator, and hilarious writer. You can follow them on Twitter and Instagram at @jestom. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youcantellmeanything/message